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"He's Just Being a Boy..." 10 Things People Say to Parents of Extreme Children

Saturday, July 13, 2019 - 3:45pm

UNSOLICITED ADHD ADVICE
"He's Just Being a Boy."
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Why do people feel justified in dumping unsolicited advice on parents of extreme kids? Telling an in-law or fellow parent where to shove their sticker chart might feel good in the moment, but it won’t solve anything. The top 10 things we hear + how to respond thoughtfully when you want to scream →

 

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