Dear Dave,
I’m 64, and I’ve been dating a 73-year-old man for four years. We’re talking about marriage, and we’ve been discussing finances. He’s retired, but I still work part-time even though I’m in pretty good shape financially. His plan, if we get married, is to give his house and his savings to his children, while we live in my home. We’d still have his small pension, what I bring home and my savings, but I think he should invest at least half of what he has in our marriage and relationship. What do you think?
Betty
Dear Betty,